Application
YOU vs you: The Eight Week Self Leadership Intensive
A private eight-week coaching experience helping intelligent, self-aware adults understand why they repeat patterns they already recognize, create a usable choice point, and practice leading themselves with more clarity and responsibility.
How it works
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Eight weeks, one pattern at a time. You begin by seeing clearly, then decode what the pattern is doing for you, then build a real choice point and practice using it.
The method, briefly
Notice · Regulate · Separate · Trace · Question · Listen · Choose · Act · Observe · Update
Each week adds one or two of these. You will not be asked to hold all ten at once.
How enrollment works
- 1You apply below. Ashli reads every application personally.
- 2If it looks like a fit, you will hear from her to talk it through, with no pressure either way.
- 3If you both decide to go ahead, you receive a private enrollment link to complete payment and the agreement.

This is coaching and education, not therapy, medical, psychiatric, or legal care. It does not diagnose or treat any condition, and no specific outcome is guaranteed.
The Intensive
YOU vs YOU: The Eight Week Self Leadership Intensive
A private eight-week coaching experience for intelligent, self-aware adults.
The first intake is capped at 6 clients. This is private, high-touch coaching, and that is the number Ashli can hold well.
- One 90-minute private kickoff session
- Seven weekly private sessions, planned at 75 minutes
- Eight weeks of concise teaching and client materials
- Field Guide tools for practice between sessions
- Optional, bounded Belief Code integration when appropriate
- Between-session support (channel and hours to be confirmed)
- A 30-day integration follow-up
The application
Tell Ashli what is actually happening.
Plain language is best. This is not a test, and there is no right answer. It simply helps both of you know whether this is the right room for the work you want to do.